Constant Communication
Recently my dearest friend and “sister-by-heart”, Cindy, moved more than 200 miles away. It was a big adjustment for both of us and through lots of tears, we are learning how to do long-distance friendship well.
I’m not sure if it’s harder for the one who is “left behind” or the one who finds herself in a new place. I’m learning to do all the same routines without the girlfriend who was always there. Sunday morning worship without hearing her voice in the pew in front of me. Phone calls saying, “Hey feel like going shopping?” Impromptu dinners out.
One thing we knew, without fail, was that while distance would certainly impact our friendship, it would in no way diminish its importance.
So, we’ve adapted.
We talk on the phone from time to time, have video chatted with big news, met up for dinner at a point in between and made some vacation time to get away for a few days together. We text often and share photos of life. Yet, the thing that has struck me as one of the biggest changes in our friendship is the daily “pings” of social media sharing that has grown. Several times a day we send each other inspirational or funny posts that share our heart with each other.
Each time my phone alerts me to a new “tag” or “share” from her it has come to mean so much! At least once a day (and often several times) I am reminded that I’m not forgotten. That I’m still in her heart. I still come to mind. That our friendship is important.
It’s also done something else for me. This rhythm of constant connection, began to remind me of staying in constant contact with the God I love and serve. He wants to hear that He’s still on my mind. That our relationship is important. That He hasn’t been forgotten.
A familiar verse reminds us…
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
I Thessalonians 5:16-18
It’s always been difficult for me to fully embrace how to practically execute the verse ‘praying continually’. Life is busy. I dedicate some time in the morning, meals, time at the end of the day to talking to Jesus and listening to Him share with me. I’ve gotten better about praying over a specific need in the moment that it is shared with me.
But what about all those minutes in-between?
I’m coming to realize that, much like the media shares between Cindy and me, it’s offering up a quick and heartfelt thought at any time during the day.
“Thank you, Lord, for that bit of encouragement you just sent me.”
“Jesus, I need wisdom.”
“Father, help me trust you in this very moment and situation.”
“Jesus, forgive the unkindness I just displayed.”
“Creator God, this weather is amazing! Thank you for your blessing!”
We have a Father God who wants us to stay in constant communication with Him. He wants to hear our heart because He cares so deeply about the relationship we have with Him.
He cares so deeply, He sent Jesus.
For reflection:
What are some ways you stay connected to Jesus and “pray continually”?
Are you ready to try working simple phrase prayers into your day?
